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To Be Happy, Avoid the Comparing Mind

To Be Happy, Avoid the Comparing Mind

In my last blog post, “Who Are You Comparing Yourself To?”, I described “the Comparing Mind”, or “keeping up with the Joneses”, and how it’s a great recipe for discontent in our lives. Spending your mental energy on comparing yourself to others can be motivational in some circumstances, but much more likely it just leaves you feeling inadequate, … [Read more...] about To Be Happy, Avoid the Comparing Mind

“Who Are You Comparing Yourself To?”

“Who Are You Comparing Yourself To?”

Are you comparing yourself to Mark Zuckerberg, Sheryl Sandberg or Steve Jobs? Is this bringing you happiness? Most people compare themselves to others. All the time. It’s a totally ingrained way of how we go through life. Buddhist teachers such as Jack Kornfield call this “the Comparing Mind”. This is very similar to the American saying “keeping … [Read more...] about “Who Are You Comparing Yourself To?”

“The Farmer’s Luck in Silicon Valley”

“The Farmer’s Luck in Silicon Valley”

On February 19, Facebook announced that they were buying the startup WhatsApp for a total value of $19 billion dollars, making this an astonishingly large acquisition of a 5-year old company with only 55 employees.  I have my own opinions about the acquisition. But what fascinates me is that both of the co-founders of WhatsApp – Jan Koum and Brian … [Read more...] about “The Farmer’s Luck in Silicon Valley”

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Thoroughly enjoyed Jim McCarthy’s Happiness Workshop, which introduced new, thought-provoking lessons. Already find myself adopting several of the practices every day. Highly recommended to anyone looking for an impactful and self-reflective session.

 
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Chief Executive Officer at Infolinks, Inc.

Jim is an amazing source of wisdom about sourcing, evaluating, hiring, training, motivating and mentoring teams. He built and ran two very high performance, valuable teams for me while we were at BlueLithium and Yahoo! together. I can’t recommend him strongly enough to companies looking to get more out of their employees.

 
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Former Trustee – Stanford University; Co-Founder Stanford Angels & Entrepreneurs

The work we did in Jim’s workshop was an unexpected joy. It helped me to feel renewed gratitude for the life I’ve been able to live and that I’m living now.

 
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Leading Pharmaceutical Company

“Jim’s Happiness Workshop not only taught us the many benefits of increasing our happiness levels, but he also shared simple, practical methods that we can use every day to achieve this goal. The feedback after the workshop was overwhelmingly positive, and I highly recommend Jim’s workshop for anyone looking for a transformational experience.”

 
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President and CEO, MMG Bank, Panama

Simple, yet powerful. It was the perfect closing for our Panama YPO presidential retreat.

 
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How the AIDS Hotline Helped Me Get into Stanford

How the AIDS Hotline Helped Me Get into Stanford

June 10, 2019 By Jim McCarthy Leave a Comment

To honor LGBTQ+ Pride Month and the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall uprising, I’d like to share … [Read More...] about How the AIDS Hotline Helped Me Get into Stanford

Interview with Healthier Podcast’s Reena Jadhav

Interview with Healthier Podcast’s Reena Jadhav

May 5, 2019 By Jim McCarthy Leave a Comment

I was delighted that the amazing Reena Jadhav chose to interview me for her podcast, entitled … [Read More...] about Interview with Healthier Podcast’s Reena Jadhav

Why Not a Bucket List for Mindfulness?

Why Not a Bucket List for Mindfulness?

May 3, 2019 By Jim McCarthy Leave a Comment

Do you have a “bucket list”? A lot of people maintain lists of things they want to do, be, or … [Read More...] about Why Not a Bucket List for Mindfulness?

How to Avoid the “I’ll Be Happy Only When …” Syndrome

How to Avoid the “I’ll Be Happy Only When …” Syndrome

April 9, 2019 By Jim McCarthy Leave a Comment

I remember working very hard for a Silicon Valley start-up. One day I heard the founder/CEO say in … [Read More...] about How to Avoid the “I’ll Be Happy Only When …” Syndrome

Life might suck now. But it should get better…

Life might suck now. But it should get better…

July 10, 2018 By Jim McCarthy Leave a Comment

Think for a second about the older people you know – whether they’re your parents, neighbors, … [Read More...] about Life might suck now. But it should get better…

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